Arya Joy,
Snehadeepam Balavedi
Yendayar
My long cherished aspiration was to
travel by air and go to a place, stay over there for few days and return. The
moment I was declared winner of Talent Search 2013 organized
This windfall in life came on 12th
August 2013. Almost a gap of two months was unbearable for me and it seemed
that days were going by very slowly. Within a week my travel documents were
ready and Mr. Michael D’Cruz C D O (Education0 of V S S S briefed me about the
details of travel and writing of required essays that had to be sent to the
organizers of the camp. Required air tickets were procured and travel schedules
were conveyed to me in advance. From Vijayapuram Social Service Society three
of us were going to Nepal, two participants- Lishamol K D from Thiruvanchoor
and me and an escort Smt. Annamma Thomas.
At last 2nd October arrived
with unusual slowness as for me it was the day to depart from home and reach
Amalanilayam, the central office of VSSS. My mind was burbling with excitement.
My mother accompanied me up to Kottayam. In the VSSS office the Director Rev.
Fr. Dennis Joseph Kannamalil prayed for our safe journey and bid bon voyage. We
all reached Smt. Annamma’s house and had early supper and retired for quick
sleep. When the mind is bubbling with excitement, sleep remained aloof from us.
Hurriedly, we got ready and our vehicle skidded away slowly towards Kochi
International Airport. Cool gentle
breeze came in through open window and gave me a soothing touch all over. The
curl on my fore head did a weird dance in front of my eyes. The light and shade
conveyed an enigmatic message in Morse code which I never bothered to decipher.
By 1.30 am the runway of Nedupasserry Airport appeared like a shining millipede
in the distance
At 5.00 am we were inside the airport
and checked in at the Indigo counter. After security check we sat at the lounge
with leisure and watched other passengers waiting for their flights.
Intermittent announcement through the PA system woke me from my semi
slumber. Boarding announcements created
some hustle bustle at times and the noise dies out as the passengers board the
specific flight. The interior of the airport put me in a world of illusion and
I made a quick run around different duty free shops.
Boarding notification for our flight
started flashing across the screen and we three dashed to the terminal to get
into the aircraft as first arrivals. Lovely airhostesses ushered us in and
directed to our designated seats. At last I was in an aircraft which I used to
see as speck in the distant sky. I thanked
Vijayapuram Social Service Society and Vijayabalavedi unit ‘Snehadeepam’
for the unique opportunity that I received and my gratitude multiplied many
fold when I thought of my class mates who could not get a chance like
this, as some of them are from well to
do families. I glued to my seat as I was not yet freed from the impact of the
reality that I was about to experience- flying through the air like a bird.
Announcement came to fasten our seat belt. A considerate airhostess helped me do
it properly. Then I saw an air hostess doing some gimmicks which I could not
follow at first. Later I understood that
those were the measures to be followed at the time of emergency.
After the initial description about
the flight schedule the aircraft stated moving. It was 7 in the morning. It turned around and roared out for the final
surge. I didn’t know the moment when the plane lifted off from the ground. I
remained stunned. A rush of emotion, which I could not explain, came in and I
did not know whether it was fright or excitement or worry. But when I resumed
my normalcy my ears were slam shut and the Nedumpasserry airport became a
blurred image in the distance. Immediately Western Ghat loomed in and the high
peaks I could not discern whether it was Anamudi or Ponmudy At the end of three
hour non-stop flight announcement came that our plane was about land at Indira
Ghandhi Internatioonal Airport at Delhi. A sort of relief came in as our plane
came to a stand still we alighted.
Delhi air port is a superb one, far
magnificent than the one at Kochi. We had to rush to international terminal to
catch the plane for the next lap of journey to Kathmandu the capital of Nepal.
The sleepless night and excited journey has drained our energy and zombie like
three figures huddled on longue chairs and had forty winks. By 1 O’clock again
we were ready to board our next plane.
There was no botheration of collecting our baggage at Delhi as our next
flight was also in Indigo Airline. We were told in advance that in the next lap
of flight we would cross over the highest mount in the world – Mount Everest.
We were anxiously waiting for that moment to come. But unfortunately Himavan decided to hide
behind a shroud of fog. Our disappointment vanished when we reached Thribhuvan
Airport at Kathmandu. From there the mighty Himalaya could be seen clearly with
no hindrance at all. I stood flabbergasted at the sight of mammoth barricade
between me and my country
Thribhuvan International Airport at
Kathmandu is a small airport. There is no chance of getting lost in that
airport as there is only one exit. When we cleared our custom and emigration
clearance members from Bikalpa were waiting for our arrival with all smiles on
their face. They greeted us with usual ‘Namaste’ and gave us hearty welcome.
They garlanded us with a stall and ushered us to a vehicle parked on the
outskirt of the airport. When we reached Bikalpa complex after 20 minutes drive
from airport it was drizzling and the atmosphere was bit chilly. October is the
beginning of winter season in Nepal The path to our dormitory was paved with
square stones cut neatly. They were wet and bit slippery. Lisha and I were
housed in a dormitory called ‘Pragathi’ which means progress.
Next day 4th October I woke
up early. My watch showed 5,45. The clock on the wall showed 6.10.I opened the
door and stepped out to the veranda. It was deserted. No one was seen around It
was still raining. From where I stood I could see dinning hall, office annexure
and Gol Ghar where the meeting was going to be held. Adjacent to the compound
and on hill slop there were so many houses. After having a delicious breakfast
at 9,00 am for what business we came to
Nepal commenced.
Camp materials were provided to 34
participants and 8 escorts. Each one had to wear a tag around the neck through
out camp period. The Participants were from India, Srilanka, Myanmar, Bhutan,
Thailand, Philippines, Bangladesh and Nepal There were 4 girls from India, 2
from VSSS and another two from an organization in Kochi ; Stephy and Mohini.
All the participants sat together and formulated the code conduct- what to do
and what not to do. The 7th Asia Girl Child Peace Camp was organized
under the theme “PEACE AND SOLIDARITY”. The two facilitators for the camp were
Mr. Ashok Sivakothi and Miss Helina Rai. The camp organizer was Miss Stella
Tamang. The ice braking was conducted in such a manner that after writing the
names of the participants a lot was taken and which ever name one gets, find
that person ,get maximum information about that person and introduce that
person to the entire group. I had the pleasure to introduce Miss Annestha
Geethanjani Vimalrai from Srilanka. Groups were formed among the participants
for reporting, reflection, management, entertainment and cleanliness. Warm up
games conducted in between the activities of the camp helped the campers to
remain vibrant.
On the first day after lunch the
official opening ceremony was conducted. As was told earlier all participants
appeared for the function in their traditional costumes. We two from VSSS wore
silk skirts and matching blouses. The other two were in sarees. All four from India sat behind a desk top
National Flag of India. It was the proudest moment in my life. Get the feel
that you are representing your own country in an international dais is
something which would remain indelible in your memory until the last breath. A
rush of patriotic feeling came in overwhelmingly and I blushed with pleasure
and pride. The inaugural session was dabbed with hue of Napal customs.A sweet
called ‘Shaku’ came around all of us and we were adorned with ‘Jamanthi’
garlands. Lamp lighting ceremony accompanied by chanting of folk songs from
various countries extended to the small hours of the night.
Everyday the group responsibility got
rotated. On second day each of us got a secret friend through a lot and without
the knowledge of that person one will have to watch and write down two points
about various aspects of that person and keep them in an envelop. The camp
progressed with different activities and amusements. Afternoon of the second
day we had a visitor from UNESCO. He described us about their activities to
promote education in rural areas of Nepal. Music had no bounds and language was
not at all a barrier for the
participants. I managed to assimilate two Nepali songs which I hummed through out
camp days. Even while I jot down my memoirs my mind regurgitate the very same
songs The highlight of the second evening of the camp was the festivity of
lighting lamp all over the premises of
Bikalpa complex. It was a
gorgeous sight watch the building of Bikalpa in the flickering light from
numerous lamps. Drawing exercise we had with colour pen revealed that Miss
Yinlet from Myanmar was a good artist Post lunch session was set apart for
shopping. We went to a shopping mall. It was very big. Experience in the mall
was a wonderful one. 100 Indian Rupee is equivalent to 160 Nepal Rupees.
Fourth day was jam packed with
wonderful events. After breakfast, dressed up in traditional costumes, we went to
the Secretariat of South Asian Association of Regional Co-operation (SAARC) and
met the Secretary . We had prepared a memorandum on ‘World Peace and Role of
Girl Child’ and handed over to the Secretary.
Lishamol K D got the prestigious role of handing over the memorandum to
the secretary. She was the pet of the camp. Her talkative nature, pleasing
attitude and free mingling made niche in the hearts of all who came in contact
with her. SAARC library was another attraction for we visitors.
Wall climbing was another activity
that I feel like noting down here. All
the participants were given gears for wall climbing and asked to scale a wall
15 feet high. It was my first experience in climbing up. As I progress my leg
started shivering like the leaves of Baniyan tree in wind. When I reached the
top I felt giddy and wasw about to ease out. Luckily nothing happened. But this
exercise has given me the confidence to face risky situation and surmount it
with presence of mind. We prepared a number of posters on women’s right and pasted them all over the
compound walls Cultural night that we had was anchored by Steffy Ann Jacob and
Mohini Mohandas from India.
On the final day a committee ‘Emerging
Youth’ was constituted and Miss Bea from
Philippines was elected as the president The General Secretary was Steffy Ann
Jacob From India. We all became members in that committee. We all disclosed our friends and handed over
the observation made by us in these days In the closing ceremony all the
participants were given certificate and shield. We had gone from India with
gifts for all the participants and it was elephant carved in Teak Wood. Our
gift was well appreciated and we also had gift from other participants.
Breaking up of the camp was a heat splitting experience. When participants from other countries bid farewell in English
a sort of detached feeling was there But when steffy and Mohini did the same in
Malayalam I could not hold myself and I burst out crying. At that time I came
to know the difference between foreign language and mother tongue. Mother
tongue truly comes from heart whereas the other languages come from the
intelligence with no emotion at all.
The return journey first to Delhi and
then to Koch and finally to Kottayam happened in a mechanical way. Only our
body was undergoing this transit. In fact our spirits were lingering in
Kathmandu – Nepal- Lumbeni the birth place of Sree Budha. One day I will have
to return there to get true Enlightment.